Ruby Franke's Daughter Reveals Dark Family Secrets in Memoir
Ruby Franke, a once-popular social media influencer known for her family-centric YouTube channel, has faced legal repercussions for child abuse. Her daughter, Shari Franke, has recently shared her traumatic experiences in a memoir entitled The House of My Mother.
The harrowing account begins with Shari's recollection of a 12-year-old boy, her brother, who escaped their home in Utah, seeking help from neighbours after enduring severe abuse. This distressing incident prompted the police investigation that unveiled the appalling conditions within their household.
Once a mother who showcased her seemingly flawless life to over two million followers, Ruby Franke's parenting was characterised by strict and abusive practices disguised as tough love. Shari's book highlights how her mother was manipulative and narcissistic, leaving her children in fear and discomfort.
Shari candidly describes the duality of Ruby's character—contrasting her public image with her private behaviour. While Ruby performed as an attentive mother on camera, behind closed doors, she was abusive and controlling.
After the rise of their YouTube channel, Shari attempted to establish her own presence online, which elicited Ruby's indifference and callousness towards her ambitions. Instead, Shari was exploited for her mother's gain, creating a sharp divide in their mother-daughter bond.
The turning point came when internal family dynamics shifted following Ruby's association with life coach Jodi Hildebrandt. Jodi's presence worsened the family’s already troubling circumstances, leading to further separation and manipulation. Eventually, Shari made the courageous choice to report her family’s neglect, signalling a critical step towards rescuing her siblings from the abusive environment.
In court, Ruby and Jodi faced charges after it was revealed that the children had been subjected to extreme physical and emotional abuse. They were sentenced to a maximum of 30 years but may be eligible for early release. Shari’s account stands as a stark warning about the dangers of family vlogging, urging the public to reconsider their engagement with such content.
Reflecting on her journey, Shari expresses a desire to lead a more ordinary life, free from the shadows of her past, as she advocates for change and healing for herself and others affected by similar experiences.